One thing I learned about boudoir photography in the last few weeks is that it’s not just for women.

The experiences that led these artists to the place they are at today. Emma Christine She credits her nursing career with teaching to care and celebrate women and their bodies.

Nomi Ellenson-May, the artist behind boudoir by Nomi began as a full time nanny to allow her to take photography courses. She later shot celebrities on red carpets before opening her own studio. She says, “Since 2016, over 900 women have passed through my studio door.” “Each time I create a space that welcomes women of all shapes, sizes, ages, and sexual orientations without judgement.

In a follow up to our tips and tricks of boudoir photography article we asked four artists about some misconceptions that people have about this genre. They share some of the common mistakes made in the industry, and explain what they do to avoid them.

Mistake # 1: Not preparing your client

Becca Murray says that it’s crucial to set the mood for a session even before the client enters the studio. This includes the language you use, the clothes you suggest and the advice you give. It’s going to influence the energy the client brings into the studio, and you want to make them feel as comfortable and open as possible.

Be sure that your client knows how you operate and what the shoot will be like. Murray says, “Leading with curiosity and treating your clients like human beings, you should assume that they have good intentions.” “Being friendly doesn’t make you unprofessional. And having boundaries doesn’t make you mean.”

Mistake #2: Not setting boundaries


Boundaries are important, especially in a field such as boudoir, May explains. It’s fine to tell a client or situation that you are not comfortable.

Stephanie Bordas is the photographer behind Brooklyn Boudoir. She says, “Stay true yourself and maintain your firm boundaries even if that means passing a client on.” Get as specific as you can with your clients regarding what they feel comfortable with, and what you are willing to do. You can ask them to search for images on Pinterest or Google with the words they prefer, as people may have different interpretations of what “NSFW” or “demure” means.