The image you have in mind when you think about boudoir might be outdated. Stephanie Bordas is the artist behind Brooklyn Boudoir. She tells me that when boudoir photography was first introduced, it used to be marketed as something you could give a loved one, or use with a partner, and I believe this point of view continues today. “But I’m trying to expand the meaning of boudoir to empower women to take beautiful photos of themselves just for. There is no need to have a recipient for these photos or to give them a “reason”. You Are the Reason.”
This idea that you should create sensual photos rather than for your client, came up repeatedly in my interviews with artists who work in boudoir. This is true for any type of portrait, but it’s even more important when you work in boudoir photography. These photographers said that the equipment is never the focus of their work. All it comes down to is your ability to make others feel beautiful, comfortable, and free to express themselves.
Know your style
A signature style or approach will help you stand out creatively and attract clients that share your vision. Clients want to know what to expect from a boudoir shoot.
Nomi Ellenson, the artist behind boudoir by Nomi advises: “While you’re building your portfolio and photographing clients be sure to share images that represent what you want to do.” If someone wants a dramatic studio lighting vibe, then I am not the photographer for them. I use natural light to create a feeling of airiness.
It’s easier to redirect an inquiry if you don’t feel it is the right fit if you have clarity about who you are. It’s reassuring to know that there will always be another client, especially if you don’t want to lose a good lead. “You can stand up for what you feel is right.”